The 2025 Best States for LGBTQ+ Families

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The US has come a long way in the last ten years when it comes to LGBTQ+ representation and rights. But recently, it has taken several steps back in some areas of the country. 

When it comes to laying down roots, LGBTQ+ families may be more concerned with risks around hate crimes and restrictive state legislation than traditional households. So we joined with Move.org and crunched the numbers around current and advancing anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, hate crime estimations, the queer and general populations, and more in all 50 states to find the ones that are most likely to have safer communities for LGBTQIA+ families.

The Safest States for LGBTQ+ Families

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Top ten safest states for LGBTQ+ families

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A note from the editor

For the purposes of this report, the term “safest” refers specifically to relative risks and protections for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families based on available data, including crime statistics, legislative protections, and policy environments. No other characterization of any community, state, or population is implied or intended.

We recognize that safety is a complex and deeply personal experience, and not all aspects of LGBTQIA+ safety can be measured through data alone. While we’ve done our best to incorporate a broad range of relevant sources, limitations in available data and evolving legislation mean this report may not capture every nuance. We encourage readers to consider both the data and their lived experiences when interpreting these rankings.

The safest states for LGBTQ+ families score was developed by incorporating multiple factors:

  • Community population
  • The estimated likelihood of household crime victimization, generated using a combination of FBI crime statistics, the National Crime Victimization Survey, and census household size data
  • Current protective and discriminatory laws
  • The Movement Advancement Project’s policy tally scores
  • Pending legislation targeting LGBTQ+ communities
  • The political composition of state governments
  • Population estimates derived from census data and modeled using population growth trends
  • We also took a look at how the top states fared in our State of Safety survey, where we ask residents in every state how safe they feel and how much they worry about crime and safety

After exhaustive research and wrestling with the data and its objective results, along with considering input from LGBTQ+ readers and viewers, the states with the highest safety rating (from our analysis) for LGBTQ+ families are:

  1. Maine
  2. New York
  3. Colorado
  4. Vermont
  5. Nevada
  6. Washington
  7. Maryland
  8. Delaware
  9. Massachusetts
  10. Rhode Island

Anti-LGBTQ+ legislation

Bills and policies aimed at the queer community were at the center of Move.org’s Safety Score. Laws that make states less inclusive to all citizens are sure to impact the safety and well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals—especially those looking to start a family.

  • 1,229 bills have been active in state legislatures so far in 2025 aimed at LGBTQ+ populations, which on average, make up less than 8% of any state’s population.
  • Maine has 23 sex orientation protective laws on the books and 25 gender identity protective laws, which played a big part in it taking the top spot.
  • Tennessee (the bottom-ranked state) has 17 negative laws against the LGBTQ+ community.

We chose to weigh negative legislation more heavily against a state's safety score because protective legislation, while designed to make communities safer, healthcare, housing, and education more accessible, and impose consequences for violation, is still easier to work around or violate than a negative law that punishes providers (in healthcare, education, housing, etc.) for granting rights and access to people and services that the legislation is designed to prohibit. Proposed legislation was also considered.

Here's our full research on LGBTQ+ legislation currently on the books across the country: 

 Learn more about the most (and least) friendly states for LGBTQ+ families in Move.org’s full report.

Safety Ranking
State
Sex Orientation Protective Laws
Sex Orientation Negative Laws
Gender Identity Protective Laws
Gender Identity Negative Laws
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1Maine23025044.52
2New York22025044.57
3Colorado25124145.253
4Vermont20023039.56
5Nevada23023141.255
6Washington19124140.254
7Maryland2002204314
8Delaware14115130.251
9Massachusetts2002203919
10Rhode Island1802103817
11California2412414518
12Oregon18022037.512
13Hawaii14017031.2526
14Connecticut20021040.7522
14New Jersey21024041.7524
16New Mexico1802303610
17Minnesota18021036.7511
18New Hampshire17118332.513
19Alaska31228.2521
20Illinois231251439
21Pennsylvania518116.7520
22Michigan162202308
23Nebraska31141.2523
24Wisconsin1215117.7525
25Kansas4114115
26Virginia14116424.528
27North Dakota716710.531
28Utah82881027
29Ohio64492.2516
30Arizona72347.533
31North Carolina72557.2538
32Georgia3133-141
33Louisiana4227-6.7530
34Kentucky6255534
35Wyoming3106-642
36Indiana7226-2.7529
37Texas4123-1.7543
38West Virginia6147-0.7537
39Iowa132776.536
40Missouri7224-1.535
41South Dakota4337-7.540
42Florida4438-346
43Oklahoma5227-5.532
44Arkansas35210-12.2539
45Alabama1319-10.547
46South Carolina5317-7.7549
46Mississippi4328-7.544
48Idaho45211-9.548
49Montana74310-3.7550
50Tennessee56411-1445
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How concerned are Americans about gender issues?

We asked 5,000 Americans (at least 100 in every state) how concerned they are about gender issues. 

  • 3 in 10 are concerned about gender issues.
  • 11% are very concerned.
  • Over half said they aren't concerned, with 34% stating they're not concerned at all.
  • Maine reported 17% concerned, with 7% very concerned.
  • Tennessee reported 35% concerned, with 1 in 10 very concerned.

Data collected as part of The State of Safety Survey, fielded in August 2024. Q: B10. Using a scale from 1 to 7, where ‘1’ is not at all concerned and ‘7’ is very concerned, how concerned are you about the following issues? Among all, 5000n.

Methodology

The rank score was developed by incorporating multiple factors: community population, the estimated likelihood of household crime victimization, current protective and discriminatory laws, the Movement Advancement Project’s policy tally scores, pending legislation targeting LGBTQ+ communities, and the political composition of state governments. Population estimates were derived from census data and modeled using population growth trends. Estimates of household victimization risk were generated using a combination of FBI crime statistics, the National Crime Victimization Survey, and census household size data. Estimates also accounted for the percentage of relevant crimes that are under-reported.

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